Flying bird necklace giveaway

Today I am happy to announce the start of another giveaway sponsored by Sandra from Friedasophie Jewellery Design.(Love her pretty jewellery and all the unusual gemstone colours)

The winner will get this pretty, gold flying bird necklace:

Description: Cute flying bird is hanging from a beautiful delicate 14k gold chain. Simple and sophisticated (charm size: approx. 20mm - chain size: 18").

HOW TO ENTER:

1. Be a follower/subscriber, THEN please comment on this post and tell me what you like best in the Friedasophie store.

2. Blog about this giveaway for an extra entry (please let me know what the link is to your blog post)

Notes: *Anyone may enter. *This giveaway will end on Wednesday, 16 December and the winner will be announced on Thursday, 17 December. Good luck!

And the winner is...

The winner of the Collect Jewellery giveaway is...*drum roll*...Simply-Mel - Congrats lady! Please e-mail me soon :)

Ps - I have another wonderful giveaway starting TODAY on my blog (Tis the season to have many giveaways...fa lalala la la la)
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*the winner was chosen by random.org

Its for you...

I'm feeling awesomely perky this morning - I have no idea exactly why...but I think i'm just going to roll with it *winks*.

Today I thought an "its for you" post would be a fab idea....

How it always works: I will answer a few random questions below. Then YOU can answer them in my comments section. why? 'cause sharing is caring....and I dig reading your answers.

1. Today I feel...that so much is possible
2. Song of the moment: "Tidal" by Imogen Heap
3. Currently I spend too much time...on a computer
4. Quote for week: "We are what we believe we are"-C.S. Lewis
5. Favourite symbol or shape? right now Hearts & birds
6. Do you think the Loch Ness monster exists? of course
7. Currently reading...Fashion magazines & blogs
8. Some of the best advice I ever got was... strive to live in the "now", stay away from gossip, stay quirky, never fall asleep with make-up on and keep writing, even if noone reads

Busy Tuesday

10 things I learnt this weekend

1. I can eat alot of cookies in a weekend :)
2. I'm becoming a shopaholic (must..buy...things) - I blame the Christmas music in malls, it makes me want to spend
3. I am over my fear of ruffled tops
4. Natalie Portman is my new celebrity crush
5. I just don't like chicken anymore (weird, but true)
6. Red tea berry flavoured Snapples are awesome
7. I heart vintage rock t-shirts
8. Skipping is such good exercise (yup, Ive been using my skipping rope and it feels good)
9. Brilliant music really helps fuel my imagination
10. A one minute kiss can burn 26 calories (apparently)
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What did you learn this weekend?

Because I like yummy cookies

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This weekend I had the chance to try a whole bunch of awesome cookies made by the lovely Jean of Jean and me.

First off I must say the homemade packaging is totally cute (see above) - I adore the little hearts and quirky wording on the labels. Once I started to try the cookies I found they were baked to perfection and that the flavours were subtle, yet very interesting. (cookies I tried: Lime & coconut, vanilla custard, White chocolate with cranberries & nuts AND ginger & dark chocolate - my favourite was vanilla custard)

Currently Jean and me cookies are only available from these Cape Town stores: *U & me coffee shop, Long Street *Nap Living, De waterkant *Green Beans, Westlake *Kassia and Figg, Kalk Bay *Dastakari Chelsea, Wynberg *Sostanza bakery, lakeside

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.....BUT If you would like to order some of them, you can e-mail Jean on: jeanandmecollection@gmail.com

*sorry photo is a bit blurry

Happy Friday!

“You must find the place inside yourself where nothing is impossible.”— Deepak Chopra

"Without leaps of imagination or dreaming, we lose the excitement of possibilities." - Gloria Steinem

Random things I felt like sharing

Last night I went for a run up my road. It was slow going and windy, but I did it (yay for me). When I got home after the 15 minute jog I looked totally red faced, sweaty, wind blown and was gasping for air BUT I felt kinda awesome. I had almost forgotten that "runners high" feeling and I wondered why I stopped trying to jog 3 months ago. I am going to try to keep up this jogging thing...I really am (pinky swear).

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While I was driving yesterday, the driver in the car in front of me casually tossed his ciggarette out the window....It really annoyed me. When the world is literally beginning to choke from all the pollution, I dont understand how someone can toss anything (especially something lit) thats not biodegradable out of a car window. grrr.....littering is so uncool.

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In other random news - I discovered that you can now buy Cadburys mint flakes (they are good). I also recently stumbled onto THIS clothing website -its hilarious, weird and actually for adults. Would you wear any of it? I probably wouldn't.

Any random things you want to share with me today?

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*photo by Grace Hallenbeck

Reluctant runner ramblings

The Boyf informed me yesterday that he has put our names down to do a 10km run for charity on Tuesday......

Me: I got your e-mail about the run. Why does it say plus one next to your name?

The Boyf: Oh, I put your name down to do it too.

Me: haha. Good one, honey. So who's really running with you?

The Boyf: You are . Don't worry though its more of a walk than a run. It will probably be alot of fun.

Me: Then why does it say "run" on poster? Its misleading. The word "walk" would really make me think happier thoughts.

The Boyf: *laughs* we can walk most of it if you like

Me: ummm....or maybe I can just meet you at finish line?

I'm a bit concerned, Ive never done one of these things before. Tonight I better go for a jog to see just how unfit I am (i wonder if i will even make it 2 blocks?). Who knows maybe it will turn out to be fun and then I can take 10km runs off my list of "things to never ever do" *grins* . wish me luck.

Pretty necklace giveaway

Today I am happy to announce the start of a lovely giveaway sponsored by Collect Jewellery (which I totally love).
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The winner of the giveaway will get this pretty necklace:

Description: This is a limited edition necklace. The 'bird in vintage frame' is handmade in sterling silver with cultured pearl on 45cm silver chain. This necklace is from the Adore collection which will be launching on 10 December.

HOW TO ENTER:
1. Be a follower/subscriber, THEN please visit the COLLECT jewellery website and tell me what you like.
2. Blog and/or tweet about this giveaway for an extra entry (please let me know what the link is to your blog post)

Notes: *Anyone may enter. *This giveaway will end on Wednesday, 09 December and the winner will be announced on Thursday, 10 December. Good luck, darlings!

Necklace winner and giveaway note

The winner of the stunning necklace giveaway is Sleepydumpling! Congrats lady - please e-mail me soon :)

NOTE: Before the end of December I will be having TWO more fabulous jewellery giveaways - The next lovely giveaway will start later today (pretty cool, hey).

10 things I learnt this weekend

1. I adore ghd curls and Benefit makeup (Jennifer - thanks so much for the invite to the ghd Style lounge)
2. My sisters are just so different from me and it annoys me at times- in fact, sometimes I wonder if we are related at all. *grins*
3. I love eyelash extensions - i want some
4. I am way too undisciplined with gym - I may need to get personal trainer or a really enthusiastic gym buddy
5. Being involved in a minor fender bender with people you know can lead to a fit of hysterical laughter.
6. The Boyf has mad bowling skills (His team won the bowling for Movember competition on Sun - I was so proud)
7. Occasionally two straight, adult males may feel the need to have a "dance-off" in public (anyone got that video?).
8. Beluga Restaurant has great half price sushi (just FYI).
9. Sometimes a chocolate brownie can save the day.
10. We are all as happy as we choose to be.

What did you learn this weekend?

Happy Friday!

"Live in the present, launch yourself on every wave,

find eternity in each moment." — Henry David Thoreau

New Moon movie thoughts

Last night I went to see New Moon and I was not disappointed at all. The directer, Chris Weitz, did a great job. Thankfully the wolves were not that fake looking and the Volturi were really awesome (I especially liked Micheal Sheen as Aro).

While the storyline was pretty much as I expected/knew it would be, there were a few surprises and funny moments in New Moon (mini-spoiler alert) like:
* Funny: The audience gasping loudly when Taylor (aka Jacob) first took his shirt to reveal his buff chest
* Surprise: How much I liked Taylor Lautner in this film (especially the scene when he visits Bella in her room)
* Funny: The scene where you first see Edward walking across parking lot to Bella.
* Funny: Charlie and Bella's high school friends
* Surprise: How they chose to end the film - what a cliffhanger

I'm so looking forward to the Eclipse movie in June 2010.

A note: I read and loved the Twilight books over a year ago (before the first movie came out). I don't think the movies would be as good or as easy to enjoy if I hadn't read all the books.

Have you seen the New Moon movie yet?
What did you think ?

Its for you...

For those of you who were secretly hoping I would put up a little Q & A to distract you from the mid-week madness........here you go...

How it works (in case you forgot): I will answer the below very random questions - then you can answer the questions as a comment. Why? 'cause sharing is caring *winks*:

1. Today I feel... Happy, optimistic and very excited to see New Moon tonight (probably have a review up tomorrow)
2. This week...feels very long.
3. Last night...The Boyf made awesome dinner, I realised I'm annoyed with nearly everyone on Gossip Girl (except for Blair and Chuck, of course) and I fell asleep while reading.
4. Lately the song stuck in my head is... "Hearing Damage" by Thom Yorke (great song)
5. Whats your favourite pet memory? I used to have this awesome, little dog named Maximus. He used to move his bed to wherever the sunny spots were. It was so cute.
6. What is currently at the top of your Christmas wish list? hmmmm...a pretty ring, Season 1 of True Blood, a Kindle (cause I'm curious), Dermalogica stuff and some silver bangles.
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Ps - Happy Thanksgiving to all my American readers (enjoy the turkey tomorrow)

If you live in Cape Town...

and you like pretty jewellery......you should come to this:

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If you interested, just RSVP to the e-mail on the above invite :)

Note to self...

10 things I learnt this weekend

1. There is never a bad time for champagne

2. I eat alot of toast the weekend before payday

3. I don't like posing for pictures - it always feels forced

4. Revlon has cute eyebrow grooming kits (i got one)

5. When i fall inlove with a pair of totally impractical, yet gorgeous heels (the kind that can't walk in and I might only wear once or twice) I just have to buy them *winks*

6. The Vampire Diaries TV show is getting very interesting

7. Wearing sunblock is not optional during the day, its essential

8. I'm really bad at wrapping presents. I should stick to gift bags.

9. People who kiss me hello (or goodbye) on both cheeks always seem to take me by surprise - then i look awkward. *laughs*

10. There is no point worrying about things you can't control

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What did you learn this weekend?

Happy Friday!

“You have to take risks.

We will only understand the miracle of life fully
when we allow the unexpected to happen”— Paulo Coelho

Friday fluff

Today I have nice ghd'ed hair, its Friday, I have a cookie on desk, I'm loved, I found my missing make-up bag and its a beautiful day in Cape Town... what more could a girl ask for? ;)

One of my fav stores, Wellness Warehouse, is about to open a mini-store in the new Cape Quarter shopping centre in Green Point. If you live around there, you should check it out.

Here are a few of the things I recently added to my Wish List: Paramores new CD "Brand New Eyes", a bottle of Hilary Duff's perfume "With Love", this bra (if only we had Victorias secret here in SA) and a chunky cocktail ring.

The Boyf is currently growing a moustache for "Mo-vember" (If you dont know what Movember is about click HERE).Even though he can rock a Mo, I'm glad The Boyf will be shaving it off next month. I really like rugged, sexy stubble but anything more just isn't as hot to me. Do you like facial hair on men?

Have a fabulous weekend :)

Some cool news

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I got an e-mail about 2 days ago (from a lovely blogger) telling me that my blog was in the latest Cosmo mag. At first I thought maybe she had mixed me up with someone else, BUT then I paged through the latest issue and ....

... I'm happy to confirm that my blog is mentioned in the December issue of South African Cosmopolitan (If you have a copy go have a look at page 24).

I feel totally flattered and surprised. (thanks Cosmo!)

Organised

Pictures like the one above make me feel envious and inspired.

I have always had a love for pretty, functional, office supplies and the older I get the more I want to organise everything (I guess you could say my OCD is getting worse *winks*) .

Ive never been a disorganised hoarder (note: having alot of books doesn't count as hoarding). In fact, I find it very healthy to get rid of things you don't use/wear or things that take up too much space. Clutter makes me feel very uncool.

I've always wanted a pretty and organised home office - So, for my next organising project, i have decided that this December I am finally going to try make our study/extra room into a organised and super functional home office.

Are you a organiser OR a disorganised hoarder?

10 things I learnt this weekend

1. ghd's are better than other flat irons (I'm now a believer)

2. Sequins make me feel oh so glam and sparkly

3. A positive attitude brings positive things to you

4. The Boyf still makes the best lamb stew ever

5. I won't be a touch typist anytime soon.

6. Edgars has "I kissed a vampire and I liked it" bags. lol.

7. Flashforward is a really awesome TV series - I'm hooked

8. An afternoon nap can save the day

9. Last minute gift shopping is never a good idea

10. It truly is the little things that count the most.

What did you learn this weekend?

Stunning necklace giveaway

Today I am happy to announce the start of a another great giveaway sponsored by jewellery maker, Christine Walsh.

The winner of this giveaway will get a stunning silver Strength Pendant with a Rainbow of Gems on a chain:

Description: A handmade fine silver oblong has been stamped with the word 'strength' and topped with a cluster of colourful gems.This delightful cluster of rainbow coloured gems include faceted Ruby and Periot pear briolettes and faceted rondelles of Swiss Blue Topaz, Amethyst and Hessonite Garnet all suspended from a sterling ball chain measuring 16 inches in length.

HOW TO ENTER:
1. Be a follower and THEN please comment on this post and tell me what piece of jewellery in Christine Walsh's Etsy shop is your most favourite?
2. If you want - Blog and tweet about this giveaway for an extra entry (please let me know what the link is to your blog post)

Notes: *Anyone may enter. *This giveaway will end on Monday, 30 November and the winner will be announced on Tuesday, 1 December. Click photo on left to enlarge. Good Luck!

Superstitious?

Do you avoid black cats? Do you believe that if you break a mirror you get 7 years bad luck? Are you afraid to open an umbrella in a house or walk under a ladder? Does the number 13 make you feel very uneasy?

If your answer is yes to the above questions then you must really be freaking out thats its Friday the 13th today *grins*.

I did a little google search for facts, myths and origins about the number 13. As expected, plenty of info came up, like......

Did you know that:

* For centuries people have had a fear of the number 13? (Random fact alert: the fear of the number 13 is called Triskaidekaphobia.)

* Apparently millions of people stay off work on friday the 13th

* In many hotels/skyscrapers there is no 13th floor and most airplanes have no seat No. 13 (weird, huh)

Personally, I'm not superstitious at all (i don't really undertsand how some people are?) and the only "Friday the 13th" that scares me a bit is the movie.

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Are you superstitious?

Happy Friday!

"Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be cumbered with your old nonsense." - Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882)

Me, today

Today I ...

...adore the heart stockings and heels in the above picture

...wrote an exam -and now my brain feels tired.

....plan to have champagne when i get home ;)

....have a strong craving for pepperoni pizza
...wish money grew on trees

...have pretty purple nails

...wonder why some people are annoyingly persistent

...won't let the grey weather get me down

....realise that I do get out what I put in

...am having a fluffy hair day -its not ideal

...feel happy and rather centered

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How you today?

Time, foreign film, zombie typing and a note

Lately time has been passing by without even stopping to have tea......its November already and I feel like I should have done so much more this year...but isn't that how it always feels?

This weekend I watched the movie "Let the right one in". Its a foreign film about a young boy who befriends a vampire girl. Its a bit dark and maybe not everyone will love it - but I found it good, strangely beautiful and thought provoking. I think I may have to check out the book that the film is based on.

I need to learn how to type really well in just a week (i have my reasons). To help, The Boyf downloaded this really cool (and rather amusing) game called "the typing of the dead". Basically this game teaches you how to type fast so that you can avoid being killed by zombies (no, I'm not kidding) I'll let you know if it helps or just makes me afraid to go near a keyboard. *hehehe*

A note: Tomorrow I won't be blogging. I just thought I should mention this in case you come over here and feel devastated that there is nothing for you to read *winks*. I will be back on Thursday....until then feel free to answer some of my recent "its for you" posts or leave me awesome comments.

Hope you have a great day!

Big bags and missing glassware

Every now and then I spot, or discover, a kleptomaniac (aka a klepto)....

Usually when one of these klepto-sightings occurs there is alcohol present and the "must have" item is some kind of glass.....(which leads me to believe that alot of kleptos reveal their true nature after a few drinks and that kleptos always feel they need glassware).

On Saturday night I watched a klepto shove a beer glass into his girlfriends big bag. As if this wasn't bad enough he made sure people saw he was doing it......(which now leads me to believe that kleptos are proud of being kleptos ).

After watching this display I had a little klepto sighting flash back... It was almost a year ago.....I was sitting at a restaurant with some friends, when after a few drinks the klepto at the table revealed herself by sticking a glass in her bag (there often seems to be one klepto in a group of friends). Then the klepto looked over at my bag and gave me a "klepto compliment".....

Klepto: wow, you have a nice big bag. you'd be able to fit a few glasses in that.
Me: ummm, thanks..... I think.

While i dont mind being friends with a klepto, I won't be inviting them to my next dinner party - I like my glassware too much ;)
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Are you a klepto? Do you know a klepto?

Swoon-worthy

The December issue of Harpers Bazaar has some absolutely gorgeous pictures of Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart in it.
I found them all so swoon-worthy that I just had to share one with y'all > Click HERE to see more of the photos.

Are you also excited for the New Moon movie?

Happy Friday!

"Music is a total constant. That's why we have such a strong visceral connection to it, you know? Because a song can take you back instantly to a moment, or a place, or even a person.

No matter what else has changed in your or the world, that one song stays the same, just like that moment."
— Sarah Dessen (writer)

Its for you...music musings

Please answer the below questions in my comments section (if you like). I would love to read your answers ;)

1. What CD are you currently listening to in your car? the New Moon Soundtrack
2. Favourite type/genre of music? Indie music
3. If your life had a soundtrack, which one artist would definitely be on it? Imogen Heap
4. Who would you like to see play live, but haven't yet? U2 and a whole lot of other band s (too many to list)
5. Do you still buy Cd's or just download music? I do both, but I still prefer buying Cd's. Its nice to have Cd's of my favourite artists (though they do take up space)
6. Next CD you want to buy? Imogen Heap's new CD "Ellipse" and The 500 Days of Summer soundtrack.

Current addictions

* Nick and Norahs Infinte Playlist Soundtrack - The more I listen to this CD, the more I like it. Its really fabulous and full of lots of music and bands I have never heard before.

* Cold-pressed, organic coconut oil - this stuff is amazing. It can be used on the body and hair. It can be cooked with (like a normal oil). It can help boost your metabolism. Plus, it smells yummy. Click HERE to read more about it (If you live in Cape Town you can get it at the Wellness Warehouse)

* Red lipstick - I've never been a fan of red lipstick , but after finding a nice shade of red for Halloween I am really warming up to the colour. I think I am going to try wearing red lips more.

* Long dresses - I am loving long dresses at the moment. I find them so comfy and easy to wear. I am on the hunt for a floral one.

* Snacking (alot) - I have started becoming addicted to snacking at my desk. I usually snack on cheesy chips (naughty). I think this is a problem alot of people have when they sit at a desk all day. I am on a mission to stop this addiction by rather eating fruit or nuts (if i must snack) and drinking more water.

What are you currently addicted to?

Be afraid, be very afraid...

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As I mentioned in a previous post, The Boyf and I were invited to a halloween party where the theme was "scary". After some thought, I decided to go as a vampire and The Boyf went as a grim reaper-ish Ghost Rider (complete with bike).

The above pics are of our cool costumes (which were taken by me & Boyf) -We had fun posing and trying to look scary :)

10 things I learnt this weekend

1. I love costumes - Can't wait for next fancy dress party

2. Trying to find good vampire teeth is hard, but trying to make them is even harder

3. I can actually run on a treadmill without falling off

4. Cold-pressed coconut oil is awesome

5. The New Moon soundtrack is pretty cool

6. I have the best boyfriend in the world ;)

7. Trying on clothes when you have PMS is always a bad idea

8. Sometimes a great kiss can cure hiccups

9. I still find Looney Tunes cartoons so funny

10. Its never too late to change direction or your attitude

What did you learn this weekend?

PS- Halloween costume photos will be up tomorrow!

Happy Friday!

“I have always been delighted at the prospect of a new day, a fresh try, one more start, with perhaps a bit of magic waiting somewhere behind the morning...” - Joseph Priestley

Time to get scary

So, its halloween tomorrow and while im not really a huge fan of some of the meanings and reasons for this day, I am a huge fan of fun costumes, playing dress-up and eating candy *grins*

The Boyf and I are going to a Halloween party tomorrow night where the dress code is "scary". I am thinking I will go as a witch or vampire (not highly original, but still good). Tonight after work I am going to drop by a party store and see what I can find :)

Hope you all have a fabulous, treat-filled weekend!

Do you celebrate halloween?
What will you be dressing up as this year? Do tell?
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*Ps - click HERE to read about Halloween

Its for you...

I'm a little lost in my own head today....So rather than bore or confuse you with tales of mind navigation I decided to do an "Its for you" post (can't wait to read your answers).

How it works (in case you forgot): I will answer the below very random questions - then you can answer the questions as a comment. Why? 'cause sharing is caring *winks*:

1. Today I feel...like I may be getting a cold
2. Last night...I made awesome lamb chops, baked potatoe and salad. I watched G.I Joe - it was cool.

3. Currently listening to... Nick and Norahs Infitine Playlist soundtrack in my car. Its full of Indie music.
4. Sometimes I wish...on the first star I see at night

5. What do you usually have for breakfast?Lately I have Muesli in the week and egg, toast & bacon on the weekend.

6. Do you believe in ghosts? Not exactly. I do believe that there are supernatural/paranormal things around though.

7. Do you blush easily? yup, I have been known to do that

And the winner is....

The winner of the fabulous gold giveaway is....*drum roll please*.... DesBisoux! Congrats lady - e-mail me soon :)

Hopefully I will have another great giveaway next month.

jumping spider moves in

A few days ago I spotted a jumping spider in the bedroom ......

Me: Come quickly, theres an evil creature in the room

The Boyf (from another room): I'm sure you're exaggerating

Me: I'm not, its big and doing ninja moves. I think its hostile

The Boyf (still in another room): ok, I'll be there in a minute

Me: A minute is too long, by then it could have taken off my arm

The Boyf (finally appears): *looks at creature* its just a nice friendly jumping spider

Me: Well, its got to go. It will jump on my things and contaminate them with its furry legs

The Boyf: I think we should leave it and let it roam free. Its eating all the bad bugs

Me: Leave it! Roam free! Are you mad? It will probably attack us in our sleep or crawl into my ear and try and eat my brain.

The Boyf: Lets just leave it, its harmless and friendly *leans super close and smiles at creature*

Me: ummm.....*looks at spider, looks at The Boyf*

The Boyf: It will be ok, I promise it wont attack you

Me: ummm..ok, I will let it stay for now- but if it comes near me its going to have be taken care of.

The Boyf : * grins* ok, honey

Anyways, since that day I have spotted the jumping spider in a number of places around the apartment. I seem to be dealing with the fact that its moved in alot better than I thought I would.

Since The Boyf seems to really like this little creature, I have stopped plotting to secretly remove it from the house. I have even gone as far as to chat to it for a few minutes and tell it the "rules" (don't touch my stuff, don't invite friends over , etc). Who knows, maybe this little spider will help me get over some of my intense spider fears.

Vote: Last night I spotted it on the kitchen ceiling and decided that I should name it. Do you think we should call it "Lucky", "Jack" or "Sir Jump-alot" ? (suggestions welcome).

maybe?

Have a fabulous Monday!

Happy Friday!

“We try to be too reasonable about what we believe. What I believe is not reasonable at all. In fact, it’s hilariously impossible. Possible things aren’t worth much. These crazy impossible things keep us going.”— Madeleine L’Engle

bright lights

Last night the 2010 soccer World Cup stadium in Green Point, Cape Town, turned on all of its lights for the first time. Until last night only 60% of the lights had been tested (apparently).

Obviously the Boyf and I took a little drive down the road to see it and take some photos. It was pretty cool and very bright :)

*The Boyf took the above photo.

Health mission, more vampires and kindles

I think its high time I went on a health mission (yup, again). I think I need to seriously start watching what I eat more. I also really want to exercise alot more (all easier said than done, huh). I think my first course of action will be to cut out all the bad takeaway food, stop snacking at my desk and try do some form of exercise for at least 20 minutes a day.

As some of you may have gathered, I'm a huge fan of vampire films and TV series. So, its not really very surprising that when i heard about "The Vampire Diaries", I just had to watch it. Just like True Blood and the Twilight saga this show is based on a series of novels, set in a small town and is about a human chick who loves a dreamy vampire - but that's pretty much where the similarities end. The more I watch this TV series, the more I am enjoying it :)

In other random news: The Kindle has now been made available to South Africans on Amazon. I'm still unsure if I want to buy one. Click HERE to read my past thoughts on the Kindle.

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Ps - Im well aware the main picture has nothing to do with the post. I just thought it was cute.

Random me

A while ago some lovely blogger tagged me to write some random things about myself (if it was you, please let me know).
So, here goes...

1. I used to name all my handbags and would introduce them to people as if they were my friends.

2. Once I ordered a double Malibu & coke in Cape Cod and the bartender told me doubles were illegal in the state of Massachusetts, but singles ok (i still wander if thats true?)

3. My hair is a mess today. Its curly wavy fluffiness.

4. Im a bit obsessive about zip lock bags (NOT eco-chic, i know)

5. Last night I dreamt I got 3 New Moon dvds, even before the movie came out in cinemas (twerd? maybe). *laughs*

6. I had a goldfish that tried to commit suicide (true story).

7. I used to try wear all my bangles and rings at the same time. Now I have way too much jewellery to even attempt that.

8. My gran always used to tell me I was "chocolate box" pretty - I still have no idea what exactly she meant by that.

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Tell me something random about you?

Happily rambling, tea and lost followers

Sometimes I really enjoy having a good ramble (By "ramble" I mean talking wildly and happily about a bunch of totally random things without even pausing to take a breather). Last night was one of those moments. While mid-ramble The Boyf stopped me for a second and I was reminded of how awesome he is by a short conversation that went something like this --

The Boyf: honey, you do realise you've been rambling to me non-stop for a while now, right?

Me: *smiles* yes, can I carry on a bit longer

The Boyf: of course *laughs*

Lately I really love tea. Somehow even the appearance of tea makes me feel calmer. I guess thats why alot of people go make some tea in stressful times. Right now I am mainly sipping organic rooibos (aka redbush) tea and English breakfast tea. I am also loving teapots. I think we all should use teapots more often.

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On a random note: Yesterday I lost 2 followers..it happens ;)

Have a fabulous Tuesday!

Pale vs fake tan

I must admit I have always been a fan of pale skin. So, over the last few years, I have worked rather hard at avoiding sun, practicing safe sun care and getting my skin to an almost vampire-like shade of white.....But lately I am feeling like I would like to try embrace a more tanned look this summer.

For the past 2 weeks I have been in thinking what to do...on the one hand I like how striking pale skin can look and don't like the harsh affects of the sun BUT on the other hand a tan can look healthy and there are good fake tan options nowdays....

After much contemplation I have decided to try out a spray tan next month or in Dec (out of curiosity). I will be getting a Caribbean spray tan, which apparently comes in 3 shades (obviously i will be going for the lightest shade).

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I am a bit nervous of a fake tan, as I fear I may turn orange, but at least I know a spray tan will not damage my skin and is temporary. I will be sure to let y'all know how it goes :)

Have you had a spray tan before?

Do you fake tan or sun tan?

Happy Friday!

"No relationship is perfect, ever. There are always some ways you have to bend, to compromise, to give something up in order to gain something greater...The love we have for each other is bigger than these small differences. And that's the key. It's like a big pie chart, and the love in a relationship has to be the biggest piece. Love can make up for a lot." — Sarah Dessen (writer)
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*Photo found HERE

10 Things I learnt while on my mini break

1. I'm not a "comfort eater" - when Im a bit down or stressed I tend to lose my appetite and eat almost nothing.

2. Cool guys don't look at explosions (Thanks Will Farrell and friends for pointing it out in THIS funny song)

3. I can be bribed with a home cooked meal

4. I have a love/hate relationship with strapless tops

5. Sipping champagne on a weekday afternoon is blissful

6. Not talking to or seeing The Boyf for a week was challenging, but it made me appreciate him even more :)

7. I probably need to listen more and talk less at times

8. Sometimes a long car ride alone with a favourite CD is all you need to get back on track.

9. There is more than one way to put on socks

10. Taking a break from the computer for a while does wonders for the mind.

Gold giveaway

Today I am happy to announce the start of a fabulous giveaway sponsored by Sandra from Friedasophie Jewellery Design.
(I love that her jewellery collection is inspired by nature and that she uses unusual gemstone colors.)

The winner of this giveaway will get this pretty Autumn Gold Tree Necklace AND can choose whatever colour stone they want with it (very nice!)
Description: Ruby fuchsia red chalcedony gemstone is hanging from a beautiful delicate 14k gold plated tree of life and gold plated chain. Chain is 18 inches long. Bead size is 8-10 mm.

HOW TO ENTER:
1. Be a follower/reader, THEN please comment on this post and tell me what's your favourite thing in the Friedasophie store.
2. Blog about this giveaway for an extra entry (please let me know what the link is to your blog post)

Notes: *Anyone may enter. *This giveaway will end on Tuesday, 27 October and the winner will be announced on Wednesday, 28 October. Good luck!

Jewellery winner and a note

The winner of the Fabulous earrings giveaway is....*drum roll please*...Manju - congrats lady, please e-mail me soon.

A quick note - I realise I have been awfully quiet this last week, but I pinky swear I will be back to regular blogging tomorrow ;)

Ps - My next giveaway starts tomorrow

Happy Friday!

"When one tugs at a single thing in nature,

he finds it attached to the rest of the world"

- John Muir

Its for you...

Today I have so much to do, so I thought I'd just quickly do an "its for you" post and then later I can read some cool answers :)

How it works: I will answer the below random questions - then you answer the questions as a comment. Why? 'cause sharing is caring *winks*:
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1. Today I feel...happy

2. Last night....I had pizza, watched some of the Matrix and fell asleep on the couch for a while.

3. Song of the week..."Satellite Heart" by Anya Marina

4. Currently I want... to spend some time outside, a royal blue dress, black wedge heels, to stop procrastinating, new Dermalogica moisturiser and the New Moon soundtrack

5. Favourite ice-cream flavour/s? I love mint, cake batter flavour from Coldstone (yum) and cookie dough.
6. Do you believe there are aliens out there? Yes. I think it would be rather disappointing if we were the only planet in the whole universe with life on it ;)

A mini break

From today I am going to be on leave for a week - which is pretty awesome! I am planning to use this time to catch up with my family, do girly things and try enjoy a little "me time" :)

While I'm lounging around here in Cape Town, The Boyf will be on a boys trip in Zimbabwe (and will be out of cellphone range). I will miss him lots, but I know he will really enjoy himself on this adventure. I can't wait to see all his cool wildlife photos.

I will still try to blog often while im on leave - but if Im a little quieter or dont comment alot over this time please don't hold it against me, as I may not be able to drag myself off the beach or couch to get to a computer *winks*

My lunch bag and caramel streaks

Yesterday The Boyf bought me a cute "Gourmet getaway" lunch bag that I had been eyeing for a while (picture above).

This cool bag is made by Built and French bull (Click HERE to see more of their stuff). The bag is made of wetsuit type material and the inside is bright pink. I know this bag is meant to be for carrying and keeping lunch cool, but its so cute i am thinking it may be a nice little handbag too :)

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*Note: if you live in Cape Town you can buy some of Built and French Bull's stuff from a Wellness Warehouse store.

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On Saturday I went to the hair salon to get some streaks. After much thought I decided to go for caramel colour streaks.

My awesome hairdresser agreed we should start slowly and just do the top with streaks and not go too light with the colour (as I had really dark hair). First he highlighted some streaks until they turned a yellowish blonde, then he toned them down with a pretty caramel colour. He has told me that the streaks will probably lighten a bit in the weeks to come. I am happy with the result and think I will do a few more lighter streaks in a few months.

*Note: My hair photo (above left) is not brilliant, but i hope it gives you a basic idea of what my hair looks like now :)

Happy Friday!

"Be here now, and know the beauty of what is.

Free yourself from concerns about what was,

or anxieties about what will be." - Ralph Marston

Friday fluff

Today the weather in Cape Town is absolutely stunning. Summer seems to have officially started - hooray!

Last night I watched Star Trek (the movie). I really really enjoyed it. If you haven't seen it yet and enjoy a good sci-fi film, check it out :)

Tomorrow I am going to the hairdresser.......As some of you may know I have very dark brown hair at the moment, possibly too dark, So I have decided to get a bit of a hair colour change.Only issue is I can't decide what to do - red streaks OR a few honey/caramel highlights??

This weekend is set to be sunny and bright. I plan to be outside alot and take some pretty photos ( I will be sure to share some with y'all). Maybe I'll even take a picture of my new hair colour.
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What you up to this weekend?
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Ps - Dont forget to enter my current giveaway.

Photo note: I found the above photos a while back online. Everytime I look at it I desperately crave a bowl of fruit loops. Its been a while since I had a bowl of multi-coloured yumminess!

Fabulous earrings giveaway

Today I am happy to announce the start of a fabulous giveaway sponsored by jewellery maker, Christine Walsh.

The winner of this giveaway will get this pair of silver egg hoop earrings with blue quartz briolettes (I love these!):

Brief description: Suspended from my handforged egg shaped hoops, that have been gently hammered and tumbled for extra shine, are smooth pear briolettes of deep blue quartz. These hoops measure 3.2 x 2.6cm, the blue quartz measures 13mm in length. All metals used are sterling silver.

HOW TO ENTER:
1. Please comment on this post and tell me what is your favourite thing in Christine Walsh's Etsy shop
2. Blog about this giveaway for an extra entry (please let me know what the link is to your blog post)

Notes: *Anyone may enter. *This giveaway will end on Monday, 12 October and the winner will be announced on Tuesday, 13 October (Random.org will pick the winning entry). Good Luck!

Talking clothes

"Know, first, who you are;
and then adorn yourself accordingly." ~Epictetus

When looking in my closet the other day I realised it was a rather poor reflection of my personality. Most of my clothes are safe basics and I hardly have any dresses or skirts.

I am now on a quest to dress more in a way that reflects who I am. I want more pretty pieces, bold accesories and alot more dresses. Right now my clothing is saying "hi, I'm practically plain Jane" when I want them to be saying something like "hello, I'm girly and chic "
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I think for a while I forgot how important it is to have fun with your clothes and use your clothes to further express yourself (even if you have to do it on a limited budget).

What do your clothes say about you right now?

Puppy love

I just saw this picture - Isnt it too cute? I so want this dog (I dont even care if it eats all my shoe laces) *grin*
Ok, I don't have to have this exact dog, but i really want a dog. A cute dog that I can take for walks on the beach and ramble to....
but first i need to get a garden.... *sigh*
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*picture found here

The winner and some giveaway babble

The winner of The Wren "keep calm " clutch giveaway is....*drum roll please* ...Boldly Benny....Congrats darling, please e-mail me soon!

As I am sure you have noticed I have had a few giveaways on my blog recently. After thinking about it for a bit I have decided to continue to do them as often as I can. I find them fun and enjoy giving away things I really adore.
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My next giveaway will be starting this Thursday :)

10 things I learnt this weekend

1. After I get a French manicure I look at my hands alot and find reasons to get people to notice my nails *grins*.
2. Cooking too much food is always better than cooking too little food for a dinner.
3. Meeting a fellow blogger in real life was cool and not as weird as I thought it would be.
4. Getting roses from The Boyf will always make me feel giddy.
5. Terminator 2 is still totally awesome
6. One of the best times to eat pizza is after midnight - Well, unless you are a gremlin (then its a no no).
7. A band is only as good as its lead singer
8. Over sized stripy jerseys make me happy
9. I am starting to learn how to ignore some of the silly voices in my head - and its about time :)
10. If you dont try run after your dreams , you will never know if you can catch them.

What did you learn this weekend?

Friday fluff

Tonight I am rather busy - after work i'm having a blow dry, getting a french manicure (can't wait), meeting blogger Rox, seeing a band and watching a stand up comedian. Should be fun!

This weekend I have no plans yet, except that I will probably visit my mom, might look at some kitchen taps and may try make it to gym at least once (i haven't been all month).

Some random news - Apparently scientists have found 162 new species in Asia. Among the new species is a fanged frog
(i have decided to rename it "vampire kermit"). It totally amazes me that people are still discovering new species today. Sometimes the world seems so small, that I forget there are still parts that have not been completely explored yet. Makes me wonder what else is out there? Read full story here.

What are you up to this weekend?

Ps - I totally adore the shoes pictured above. They are too cute. If you know where I can buy them, let me know :)

Happy Friday!

“ Be brave. Take risks. Nothing can substitute experience. ”

- Paulo Coelho

Gossip Girl, sequins and a day off

Gossip Girl Season 3 has finally started! I'm infatuated with Blair and Chuck all over again (just had to mention that).

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A few days ago I purchased a rather inexpensive, black, sequined tank top. The front is totally covered in sequins, the back is just black. Now usually I would shy away from things covered in sequins, as I have always found them a little too "vegas showgirl" for my liking, but I thought it might be fun to try wearing more glitzy and glam clothes to parties/dinners. I think pairing the top with heels and jeans should work well.

Do you like sequins?

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Tomorrow, as some of you know, is a public holiday here in South Africa. Its Heritage Day and National Braai Day. So, I am off to go and enjoy a braai (aka barbecue). I doubt I will post tomorrow as I will probably be too busy eating meat, making salad and going for rides on The Boyfs bike.

Catch you all on Friday :)

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* pretty picture found here